Sabine Horner, Nutritionist, Ayurvedic Health Coach and Grief Yoga Therapist, York, UK

How I Learned to Embrace Life Again

Hi, I'm Sabine, and I'm so glad you've found me. I'm a Wellness & Grief Specialist, here to guide you through this overwhelming time and support you in taking small, gentle steps towards reclaiming your well-being after your devastating loss.

Grief is heavy, and caring for yourself often feels impossible because of it. But I know from experience that it's possible to regain your energy and well-being, even though it feels like a massive mountain to climb.

I never had any grand ambition of becoming a nutritionist or yoga therapist. In fact, it wasn't a path I had planned at all. But even before life pushed me into changing my career, I had always been fascinated by how food and nature can help us heal or prevent illness. My personal journey – particularly through the loss of my husband to leukaemia – is what led me to these practices and, ultimately, to the work I do today.

When My Whole Life Changed

When Kevin died, I promised him I would look after myself. I had all the tools - I had learned how to cook through his illness and not just any food but 100% nutrient-dense meals that are right for my body type.

Still, grief has a way of turning even the simplest tasks into insurmountable obstacles. It drains our energy in more ways than you'd think possible, playing constant ping-pong with our moods and emotions so that the person we once were becomes unrecognisable.

Despite knowing what my body needed, there were days when I couldn't bring myself to eat properly or practice yoga. That's when my Ayurvedic doctor gently reminded me that nourishing my body wasn't optional - it was essential for moving forward.

Everybody needs such a gentle nudge - and I'd like to be your gentle companion on your unique journey through grief. 

Since Kevin died, I’ve continuously searched for simple, effective tools that truly help when everything feels overwhelming. This quest has led me to become a qualified nutritionist, yoga therapist, and most recently, to add Ayurvedic aromatherapy and marma therapy to my healing repertoire.

I believe that when grief consumes us, we need uncomplicated, gentle approaches rather than complex regimens – which is why I focus on practical tools that don't require enormous effort when you're already depleted.

Memberships

How I Support Others Now

Today, I work with grieving people who are struggling to take care of themselves - whether that means forgetting to eat, having trouble sleeping, or feeling constantly anxious and overwhelmed.

My approach doesn't require you to "get over" your grief or pretend you're okay when you're not. Instead, it focuses on simple, practical ways to support your body so it can better carry the weight of your grief.

Together, we'll find approaches that work for your unique situation:

  • Simple, nourishing foods that stabilise your energy and mood
  • Breathing techniques that can calm your nervous system in minutes
  • Gentle movement practices that help release the physical tension grief creates
  • Aromatherapy and touch therapy for moments when emotions feel too intense
  • Manageable daily routines that provide structure when everything feels chaotic

We’ll work at a pace that suits you, focusing on small, achievable steps because even tiny changes can make a big difference in how you feel, day by day.

    This Isn't Just Professional Knowledge

    What I offer comes from both professional training and lived experience. I know what it's like to wake up and wonder how you'll get through another day. I understand the emptiness of cooking for one when you used to cook for two. I've felt the frustration of people expecting you to "move on" when you're still struggling to get out of bed.

    But I also know that there are gentle, natural ways to support yourself through this journey - practices that don't dismiss your grief but help you carry it with a little more strength and ease.

    One small step can change your life

    If you're struggling to take care of yourself while grieving, or if you simply need someone who truly understands what you're going through, I'd love to connect.

    Book a free call with me, and we can talk about how to support you right where you are - no pressure, no platitudes, just practical care for your whole being.

    Much love,

    Sabine

    I really enjoyed your teaching today. Got so much out of it. Your gentle reflective flow was perfect for 7am. Your knowledge is vast and I liked the holistic approach, lots of pranayama, breath awareness and use of mudras and band. Most of all I loved the time given generously to each practice. And time to reflect on the benefits afterwards.
    Pauline
    You are inspirational. I particularly enjoy hearing about food/spice effect on the body as I am suffering with arthritis currently. It’s so interesting learning what influences our wellbeing.
    Sue
    Hi Sabine, just wanted to say it was lovely to meet you, and thank you for all your information regarding nutrition. I’m going to try and do your stew tomorrow and I’m ordering some vitamin D. So it’s a start. Take care and speak soon x
    Mandy
    That was amazing. Thank you! I feel much calmer and grounded in my body. I am definitely interested to learn more.
    Sarah
    Hi Sabine! I just want to say thank you for your Facebook posts and videos. I always find the nutrition and meditation tips very helpful having become a widower after losing my wife Sue in traumatic circumstances. It is inspirational to see your positive messages with practical tips. They make a real difference.
    Anthony
    Thank you for always trying to support bereaved people with the very basic need of looking after ourselves .... something we don't always do!
    Corinna
    Lizzie and I are so grateful to have had Sabine's gentle guidance for the families we support, you can learn more here in a wonderful Podcast we did with her - https://www.buzzsprout.com/2244801/13776676. Sabine's knowledge is vast and with her gentle deliverance she is the perfect person to support anyone with self care during grief.
    Stag Direct Cremations
    Thank you for this. I lost my husband almost 6 months ago. I’m finding your videos so helpful even if I don’t always comment.
    Caroline
    After what you were telling me about the importance of nutrition I've made some changes to my diet and I've started taking vitamin D and magnesium supplements. I noticed improvements in myself immediately: the anxiety has gone, I have more energy and I've even started being able to exercise again. So, thank you for your guidance and advice; I feel that it has helped a great deal.
    Helen
    Message to WAY: Sabine wrote an article on Grief and its Impact on our Digestion - please pass on huge thanks for her knowledge on this subject - I’m not young but my husband died two years ago - a year later I suffered chronic constipation and brain fog (which I didn’t understand) and two CT scans and a colonoscopy later there was no answer. The good news is I’m getting better and Sabine’s article put all this into context and I can’t tell you how much better I felt having read her article - every doctor's practice should have a Sabine!
    Elaine

    I am also fully committed to these groups:

    Ambassador & Blog Writer For AtaLoss

    I am proud to serve as an ambassador for AtaLoss, an award-winning bereavement signposting charity, dedicated to providing timely, appropriate and effective support to bereaved people in the interests of their overall wellbeing. As one of their regular blog writers, I try to raise awareness of the many ways in which grief can impact our health, and share practical strategies for nurturing ourselves after a devastating loss.

    AtaLoss.org is the UK's signposting and information website for bereaved people

    Wellbeing Community For Grieving Partners

    Navigating life after the loss of your partner? Join this community for a wealth of support, including easy self-care routines, stress management tips, impactful nutritional advice, coping strategies for meal planning, cooking, and grocery shopping, plus quick & tasty recipes, and inspirational cooking videos. My aim is to strengthen your resilience amidst turbulent emotions and improve your overall wellbeing. Together, we can do this!

    Wellbeing Community For Grieving Partners | Facebook

    Area Contact For York (Widowed & Young)

    As area contact for WAY, a UK organisation supporting young widows and widowers, my aim is to create a close-knit community for bereaved partners in York and surrounding area. My role is to welcome new members, guide them towards WAY’s support systems and help organise local events where members can connect, form bonds and find new friends for life who get it. Join us today to share laughter and tears with us.

    WAY Widowed and Young